Gender, Stop Word Abuse

So i know its been a while and i was starting to actually have a vaguely significant amount of people view this blogs posts i don't know who or why but thank you and i suppose im sorry if you care.
i rather hope someone still sees this although my original intent for this was supposed to be more of a venting diary, its nice to know some people have a vague amount of intrigue in my life and or opinions.


onto today's subject a touchy one which is honestly stupid that it is, Gender.

first of all i apologize if i offended you but these are my opinions period, second of all how did you find me?

so basically the issue being that there are people who believe gender is something you get to decide, its what you want to be treated as and not what you are this is Incorrect.

it irritates me greatly that people think this way its not that i don't think guys can't act like/dress like/ect girls and visa versa its simply that gender is something already defined.

you see we have words and groups of words that aptly represent the groups that like to represent themselves as another gender ect ect different sexuality identifications. the problem is when people start butchering an important and and previously well defined term in the English language, Gender. you see we have terms for all these other things and gender as well. when people however start using gender incorrectly to describe these things that already have appropriate terminology, it skews and warps the a perfectly good necessary and effective word which is of course gender and has the potential to leave a gap in the English language. ((or cause innumerable stupid needless arguments online)). another point is allot of people say your gender is your genitalia or try to define it otherwise
your gender is either male female or other you have all male parts? male you have all female parts? female you have some sort of deformity so that you have a mixture? other. and trans people in my opinion are for all intensive purposes there chosen gender.. after the procedure of course.

and one last note to help clarify and hopefully actually help sort this a tiny insignificant bit, if anyone reads this and ever feels the urge to call themselves a gender they aren't actually physically at least use the term "gender identity". using the term gender identity helps clear things up abit... unless your "other" then you can use your discretion as it could certainly be extremely awkward.

anyway as always everyone reading this have a good day have a good life and ill see you next time.... if i ever feel the need to blog again i couldn't remember exactly what i usually say soooo this is what you get also i want to get back to my game.